Our past is our own and belongs to no one else. Our experiences happened and the days, weeks and months before that moment brought us to that experience. It has happened to show us where we are in our life. The idea that it is not really about us is a strange one and begs the question, then who is it about? Much in life is finite. It happens as a moment in time and then it is gone. Be it a nice lunch with a friend, time with family, a ball game, or a new car that you enjoy fo